I'm much more worried about the cosmetic effects because there is no pain. I was a medic, so I immediately researched what to do. Take the time to listen to your body and follow its suggestions. To each their own. Depending on your anatomy, you may find comfort in different positions.
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First off, hemorrhoids and anal sex are no joke. And while sex doesn't necessarily cause them, the penetration, friction, and pressure can agitate already angry veins in and around the rectum. If you jump in too soon, it will only exacerbate the situation. Right now, explore other options for pleasuring your partner. And as your healing progresses remember, it takes time and diligence ease back in with simple techniques that quell the pain of the inflammation. Hemorrhoids are inflamed veins that may or may not cause irritating symptoms.
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Get used to them. I have no skin tags and almost no bleeding, but a constant dull ache for many, many hours after a bowel movement. My colorectal surgeon also said that I was just shy of the miserable limit that would show I could benefit from the newest surgeries. I have had anal sex twice and loved it. I want to have anal sex again, but both times I was terribly self-conscious. Just because somebody is having sex with your butt does not mean they have to look at your butt.